He walked straight down the center of the road—
No maybes. Yes or no.
He liked to drink. He drank.
He liked to sail a boat. He sailed a boat.
He was an actor. He was happy and proud to be an actor.
He’d say to me, “Are you comfortable? Everything O.K.?”
He was looking out for me.
“Need anything?”
To put it simply: There was no bunk about Bogie. He was a man.

Good men make good fathers.

We’re two days too late for the holiday, but father’s day is really every day.

John F. Kennedy, Jr., with his daughter Caroline.


I feel the need to admit that I have not given much explicit thought to the definition of style, notwithstanding that I am said to possess it, by which a compliment is sometimes but not always intended (“style” is widely misread as affectation). But finding myself in the pressure cooker, it came to me after very little ratiocination that style is, really, timing.
William F. Buckley, in a letter to Playboy, January 1983

A good man doesn’t let his style upstage his smarts.

William F. Buckley, Jr.


Men in bowlers and dark suits with their rolled-up umbrellas. Men full of propriety, calm and proud, neat and noble.
Thomas Merton


Slim Aarons in Athens, 1955.


You’re going to love me, and you’re going to hate me.
George “Slim” Aarons, photographer and good man

A good man lets her buy a round.


A good man makes her an honest woman.

Mr. and Mrs. Elvis Presley on their wedding day, 1 May, 1967.


A good man mugs for the camera.

A few good men-bros-dudes: Brendan Fraser, Pauly Shore, and Sean Astin, on the set of Encino Man in 1992.